I've really taken to a talk called Dharma and Denial by Manjuka.
That has lead Vital Lies, Simple Truths: The psychology of self deception by Daniel Goleman (who has a blog).
That has been reinforced, among other things, by Dhammarati's talk Breaking the Mould on free buddhist audio. He discusses his therapist friend who likes James Hillman, and being authentic, avoiding any kind of repression.
Further reinforced is Standing on Emptiness by Dhammadassin, which is about accepting ambivalence, the unknown.
Why we don't help and what we can do about it - My family and I have just returned from a very rich and varied week in New York, where we did all the usual tourist things, including a visit to the 9/11...
1 year ago